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Isn't it better to say it to the face?

It's a straight question. Isn't it better to say it right to the face ?

I mean, there are various instances in our life, when we don't say things to people. We somehow manage to avoid the situation, or compromise that the situation is covered up. So that, we don't have to face awkward circumstances. But actually, shouldn't we be doing the opposite thing ?

In this new age, with means of communication moving into various realms, it has become possible to express yourself in easier ways, than meeting the person, and saying it to the them directly. And definitely, all persons, prefer the better versions of communication, since it doesn't involve so much of embarrassment. When you are texting the person about your anger, your frustrations.

The reason for this is the recent incident that I came across.
Two friends - staying in touch all the time, meet in person after a long time. But due to some complexes, one was upset with the other. And naturally, when they met, they didn't utter a word to each other. And then, there was some exchange of texts, and off you go! The guy was rushing to meet the girl, and the so-called "roothna-manaana" routine might have happened. May sound complicated, but to witness it in real-time, is kinda funny!!

Instead of all this, whatever the situation may be, if they had taken the guts to tell the problem to each other straight on, then there would have been some understanding!
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  1. Gayathri R NairOctober 11, 2011 at 10:02 AM

    hmm i support...dis happnd to mee too le??? but wen u come across such a situation tz a bit dfclt swittu seriously! and good riting switt :)

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  2. Vinay ChandranOctober 12, 2011 at 11:09 AM

    Thanks Liz. Happens to many people. That's what I came across. But wrote it upon coming across the most stupid one out of it.:P Dis happened to you too huh ? Hmm.. No words..

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